After the glow of the honeymoon fades and the chime of the wedding bells has faded away, a newly-wed couple has dreams of a life spent together, forever. Unfortunately, this fairy-tale happiness is not a guarantee, and affairs, money problems, or emotional distress can lead to one party or the other looking to a divorce as a solution.

These days, our society accepts divorce as an unfortunate but accepted reality of married life. While annulments have been around for centuries, divorces are different. Divorce is a way of ending a marriage, without the death of a spouse, while a more traditional annulment declared that a marriage was void from the beginning.

Some married couples see divorce as a \”magic wand\” to solve the problems, whatever they may be, in their relationship, but sadly many choose this step without realizing the high price each pays, both in terms of money and hurt feelings.

Another common misunderstanding about divorce is that most people think that divorces will be over in a short period, and they can continue living they’re lives as if nothing happened. We’ll the fact is that the average divorce last for about two years and most of the time costing more financially than first imagined.

The financial cost of divorce differs from cases to cases. Although, most lawyers would tell you that the cost of a one-day trial would be around $3,000. That’s the just for the lawyers alone. If you think of tagging along expert witnesses, the fees would significantly over and above that.

Along with the \”sticker price\” of the divorce, the husband and wife sometimes forget about the hidden fees. All of a sudden, each individual needs to find a new way to pay rental or mortgage payments. Auto and health insurance change. Alimony and child support can sometimes require large payments. Without warning, one’s cost of living can go through the roof.

Beyond the dollars and cents, a great cost can be inflicted on a person mentally and emotionally as well. The very nature of divorce proceedings require attention be paid to the mistakes of the past, which reinforce the problems that caused the situation.

Another emotional cost a divorce process would be the avoidance of responsibility. At this phase, it is all too common to play the \”fault and blame\” game. Instead of taking responsibility of ones action, they result to blaming the other party to make themselves look as if they were the victim. In most cases this would only lead to feeling of helplessness and could easily slide to depression.