When a storm strikes, disaster hits, or anything that’s just plain bad happens, there will always be signs of warning. It’s certainly a cliche to hear people say: “why didn’t we listen to the warning signs”. This is true of bridge collapses, storms, political events, and of couples breaking up.

Be warned, if you’re subject to paranoia, please skip this article. You must bear in mind that the points discussed here refer to changes in your partners behavior that was absent in the past. Likewise, the more points that are true for your relationship the more likely a breakup is imminent.

1.) Is your partner habitually threatening to break up if you fail to meet her conditions? When she is in this mind set it means that she’s been premeditating on this for some time now. If a positive change in the relationship doesn’t happen soon, a break up is in the cards.